The second article, 14 Signs Your Perfectionism Has Gotten Out of Control, was a bit too relatable for my comfort. While I did not identify with all fourteen items on the list, I could easily point to several of these tendencies in my own life. Nevertheless, when it comes to perfectionism, I think that self-reflection is invaluable. It's helpful to have moments of clarity in which you're given the opportunity to recognize potential issues, and then adjust accordingly.
Ultimately, I think that's what feedback is about. Like so many, I'm not always the best at receiving criticism, but I want to learn to see criticism as a growth opportunity, rather than a personal attack.
Here's a Growth Mindset Cat that I think sums up my thoughts nicely.
AHHH I LOVE THIS. One of my personal mottos is that your greatest weakness is also your greatest strength... in a world where an excess of a quality can be good and bad in equal measure, it is important to understand where your abilities lie. With that being said, I certainly agree that self-reflection is an incredibly important part of the feedback process. Controlling your inner perfectionist is never easy, but thinking about framing things in different ways can certainly help.
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